Avoiding Conflict Doesn’t

You didn't say it at dinner. You didn't say it in the meeting either.

Those aren't two separate decisions. Nobody has a home nervous system and a separate work nervous system — the way you handle conflict at the kitchen table is the way you handle it at 2:15 on a Tuesday.

New piece on where the conversation actually goes when you skip it, why avoidance is a genuine skill running on old data, and five things to do instead.

One question to run before you decide something isn't worth bringing up: am I letting this go, or am I storing it?